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The 3 zones of growth

October 03, 20251 min read

Every big career jump I made?
Started with discomfort.

Comfort is a killer for your career.

Your brain hates discomfort.
But it thrives on it.

Most of us avoid stepping into the unknown because it feels risky.

But neuroscience shows that your brain actually rewires itself when you push past your comfort zone.

Stanford neurologist Robert Sapolsky found moderate, manageable stress improves cognitive function and memory.

Why?

When you stretch, your brain releases norepinephrine, building new neural pathways.

The world’s best leaders don’t stay comfortable.
They seek the right kind of discomfort and use it to keep growing.

They throw themselves into a new role, a coaching program, a stretch assignment 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 they feel ready.

How to make discomfort your growth engine:

1/ Identify your zones:
➤ Comfort zone: Tasks done on autopilot
➤ Stretch zone: Challenging, but doable with effort
➤ Panic zone: Too overwhelming to be useful

2/ Schedule deliberate stretching:
➤ Block 2 hours a week for something slightly uncomfortable
➤ Example: If public speaking scares you, start small; speak up in meetings

3/ Use the 70/20/10 rule:
➤ 70% mastering your current tasks
➤ 20% stretching your skills
➤ 10% experimenting with new roles or projects

4/ Build your own psychological safety:
➤ Google’s Project Aristotle found psychological safety is the #1 predictor of team success
➤ Treat new challenges as experiments; not win/lose tests

5/ Track growth, not perfection:
➤ Measure progress in small steps
➤ Celebrate the attempt, not just the result

The magic’s always at the edge of your abilities.

Each time you stretch, your comfort zone expands and your brain literally changes.

Want to advance your career?
Pick one way to stretch today.

Put it on your calendar, it’ll pay off.

An infographic titled "3 Zones of Growth: The Science of Stretching Your Limits." It uses a concentric circle diagram to illustrate the three zones: the innermost Comfort Zone (70%), the middle Growth Zone (20%), and the outermost Stress Zone (10%). The graphic lists various feelings and states associated with each zone, such as 'Easy' in the Comfort Zone and 'Conquer Objectives' in the Growth Zone, explaining how discomfort drives transformation.

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Crush Your Goals in 2022

Yearly Planner

If you want to make things happen for your job and your career next year, and you want to set some goals to help you get there, you will want to download my free Crush Your Goals step-by-step workbook.

Supercharge Your Day

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Designed for driven women leaders, this 2-hour program packs a punch, teaching you how to manage your time more effectively and boost your career success. Supercharge Your Day is the ultimate framework for prioritizing your workday and increasing your confidence to take on larger roles—without guilt or burnout!

Teams That Trust

Advanced Communication for Complex Teams

Next Skills Camp:

November 6th & 20th

Saturday 9:00 am – 1:00 pm Pacific


The ability to work together interdependently is one of our least developed skills. Yet, it is the most vital in today’s landscape. The communication skill of connecting with others – and creating the emotional space for others to open up – requires deep trust. Without trust, leaders and teams struggle to achieve extraordinary results. In two 4-hour sessions, you will discover the underpinnings of trust and how to build trust at all levels.

Amplify Your Executive Presence

Develop your influence, be seen as a rising leader

Learn how to develop your leadership foundation, executive presence and leadership brand to gain influence in an authentic way that brings your personal strengths to the forefront. You will develop your gravitas and confidence to be seen as a leader while navigating the social influences that women must contend with in order to be successful in our current environment.