Networking feels like tooting your own horn? It is!

But only when you're seeing it as:

→ Focusing on what you can take instead of give
→ Handing out business cards to strangers at events
→ Making every chat about how awesome you are

So before you even start, networking feels more like a chore.

Here are 3 reframes to help you ditch the dull script:

1️⃣ Self-promotion → Building a support system
Think of it as letting others get the gist of your work and how it clicks with theirs so in times of need they trust who to go to. And yes, that helps you out too!

2️⃣ More shallow relationships > Deep relationships
Avoid getting bogged down on collecting deep, time-consuming relationships. Broaden your circle with manageable connections because weak ties often open more doors that deeper relationships can't.

Don't forget to ask yourself:
Who do I need to know to get to the next level?
And who will I need to know once I'm at the next level?

3️⃣ Taking → Giving
Focus on what you can contribute not extract. Offering help, support, or just a listening ear, lays groundwork for a relationship that's reciprocal, not transactional.

And lastly a friendly reminder...

Networking isn't about filling your contact list but instead planting seeds of collaboration. 💛