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Crush Your Goals in 2022

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If you want to make things happen for your job and your career next year, and you want to set some goals to help you get there, you will want to download my free Crush Your Goals step-by-step workbook.

Supercharge Your Day

The *Secret* to Actually Getting Ahead in Your Workweek (without adding another huge thing to your to-do list)

Designed for driven women leaders, this 2-hour program packs a punch, teaching you how to manage your time more effectively and boost your career success. Supercharge Your Day is the ultimate framework for prioritizing your workday and increasing your confidence to take on larger roles—without guilt or burnout!

Teams That Trust

Advanced Communication for Complex Teams

Next Skills Camp:

November 6th & 20th

Saturday 9:00 am – 1:00 pm Pacific


The ability to work together interdependently is one of our least developed skills. Yet, it is the most vital in today’s landscape. The communication skill of connecting with others – and creating the emotional space for others to open up – requires deep trust. Without trust, leaders and teams struggle to achieve extraordinary results. In two 4-hour sessions, you will discover the underpinnings of trust and how to build trust at all levels.

Amplify Your Executive Presence

Develop your influence, be seen as a rising leader

Learn how to develop your leadership foundation, executive presence and leadership brand to gain influence in an authentic way that brings your personal strengths to the forefront. You will develop your gravitas and confidence to be seen as a leader while navigating the social influences that women must contend with in order to be successful in our current environment.

The logo features the words "Sister Smart" in a stylized script font, with the "S" in "Sister" and "Smart" overlapping. Below the main text, in a smaller and simpler font, it says "EMPOWERING WOMEN LEADERS TO FULFILL THEIR VISION". The overall color scheme is a teal or turquoise.

Leadership in Expectation vs Reality

November 24, 20241 min read

Leadership in Expectation vs Reality 🙏

Expectation: Leaders inspire others effortlessly
Reality: They often feel isolated and unsure

Expectation: Great ideas lead to immediate buy-in
Reality: You need to navigate skepticism and doubt

Expectation: Your team will follow your vision
Reality: They have their own agendas and priorities

Expectation: Communication is straightforward
Reality: Misunderstandings are the norm, not the exception

Expectation: Recognition comes naturally
Reality: You have to advocate for your team's achievements

Everyone says, “Just lead with confidence.”
But the reality is a lot more complex.

Here’s what many believe will work best:

❌ Thinking authority equals respect
❌ Relying on your title to drive action
❌ Believing everyone shares your goals

→ Those won't cut it.

To elevate your leadership:
hone in on the human side

✅ Build authentic relationships:
⤷ Trust is earned, not given.

✅ Listen actively:
⤷ Understand concerns before presenting solutions.

✅ Be adaptable:
⤷ Flexibility shows strength in leadership.

P.S. Do you think leaders are born or made?

Leadership: Beyond Bossing People Around  This image debunks the myth that leadership is just about giving orders. A simple pie chart with a single, large section labeled "Telling others what to do" represents the common misconception.  However, a second, more colorful pie chart reveals the true facets of leadership, with slices dedicated to:  Self-awareness Crafting a vision Showing empathy Empowering others Celebrating team efforts Handling influence with care Listening first, speaking last The image is credited to Jill Avey, Executive Coach.

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Crush Your Goals in 2022

Yearly Planner

If you want to make things happen for your job and your career next year, and you want to set some goals to help you get there, you will want to download my free Crush Your Goals step-by-step workbook.

Supercharge Your Day

The *Secret* to Actually Getting Ahead in Your Workweek (without adding another huge thing to your to-do list)

Designed for driven women leaders, this 2-hour program packs a punch, teaching you how to manage your time more effectively and boost your career success. Supercharge Your Day is the ultimate framework for prioritizing your workday and increasing your confidence to take on larger roles—without guilt or burnout!

Teams That Trust

Advanced Communication for Complex Teams

Next Skills Camp:

November 6th & 20th

Saturday 9:00 am – 1:00 pm Pacific


The ability to work together interdependently is one of our least developed skills. Yet, it is the most vital in today’s landscape. The communication skill of connecting with others – and creating the emotional space for others to open up – requires deep trust. Without trust, leaders and teams struggle to achieve extraordinary results. In two 4-hour sessions, you will discover the underpinnings of trust and how to build trust at all levels.

Amplify Your Executive Presence

Develop your influence, be seen as a rising leader

Learn how to develop your leadership foundation, executive presence and leadership brand to gain influence in an authentic way that brings your personal strengths to the forefront. You will develop your gravitas and confidence to be seen as a leader while navigating the social influences that women must contend with in order to be successful in our current environment.