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12 tough lessons leaders don't talk about

April 10, 20252 min read

The toughest things about leadership aren't the ones we talk about:

(15+ years in executive roles taught me this the hard way)

Sometimes we resist learning lessons that kind of suck, but that doesn’t make them any less important for success.

Leadership isn’t just a title, it’s a test of what you’re willing to face.

1/ Being too good = overload
⇢ Excellence becomes a trap when you don't set clear boundaries.
⇢ Document your strategic impact, not just task completion.

2/ Taking credit requires inner work
⇢ Stop downplaying your achievements in the name of humility.
⇢ Share specific results while honoring team contributions.

3/ Letting go challenges your identity
⇢ Your methods brought past success, but scaling needs trust.
⇢ Give your team space to find better solutions.

4/ Not fixing everything tests your instincts
⇢ The instinct to solve problems needs restraint.
⇢ Build stronger teams by coaching instead of fixing.

5/ Deliver bad news with courage
⇢ Lead with clarity and compassion in tough moments.
⇢ Create space for questions while maintaining forward momentum.

6/ Growing shifts peer relationships
⇢ Success naturally creates distance from former peers.
⇢ Honor old bonds while building new connections at your level.

7/ Not everyone’s favorite
⇢ Fair decisions won't please everyone.
⇢ Focus on earning respect through consistent, transparent leadership.

8/ Confidence + Curiosity
⇢ Expertise and curiosity can coexist.
⇢ Show both strength in knowledge and openness to learn.

9/ Seeing others take your credit
⇢ Sometimes, others get credit where credit isn't due.
⇢ Build visibility through regular updates to stakeholders.

10/ Staying creative under pressure
⇢ Innovation needs protected time and space.
⇢ Create room for new ideas even when urgency looms.

11/ Leading through hard days
⇢ Your consistent presence outweighs periodic brilliance.
⇢ Build routines that sustain your energy daily.

12/ Reading between lines requires awareness
⇢ Learning to read between the lines is an underrated skill.
⇢ Ask questions to understand unwritten expectations.

The truth is, they’re not really challenges,
They’re opportunities for growth.

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Crush Your Goals in 2022

Yearly Planner

If you want to make things happen for your job and your career next year, and you want to set some goals to help you get there, you will want to download my free Crush Your Goals step-by-step workbook.

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